Muka kedua pasangan ini masam mencuka. Sakit hati. Dia orang datang berjumpa Dr Erikson Milton. Seorang psikiatris dan pelopor kepada ilmu hypnosis.
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Tujuan datang nak dapatkan khidmat nasihat dari pakar. Rumahtangga dilanda ribut. Perang dunia ke-3 asyik berlaku.
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Hidup keduanya dulunya indah. Jalan pun pegang tangan. Sekarang dah lain. Ada saja yang tidak kena. Tak ada lagi sembang mesra. Yang ada jeritan dan makian.
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Si isteri tak lagi faham suami. Suami pun sama. Kedua-duanya macan orang asing dalam rumah sendiri.
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Dulu ikrar mahu sehidup semati. Itu dululah. Waktu semuanya indah.
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Walapun asyik berperang, si isteri secara diam diam pasang niat. Nak selamatkan rumahtangga. Demi anak anak.
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Dia fikir mesti ada jalan keluar. Dia cuba pujuk suami. Ajak suami jumpa Dr Milton.
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Pujuk punya pujuk akhirnya sang suami setuju. Tiba hari yang dijanjikan sampailah mereka ke pejabat Milton. Keduanya masuk dan duduk.
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Masa masuk saja Milton kata “Kedua-dua kamu keluar berjalan secara sendiri-diri di taman seberang jalan sana. Pusing sehingga habis dan kembali ke pejabat ini. Jumpa saya selepas itu.”
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Sang suami tengok isteri dia. Muka dia macam
blur sebentar. Dengan berat sang suami pun keluar seperti yang diarahkan.
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Sang suami bermula dari arah selatan. Si isteri masuk ke taman dari arah utara.
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Lepas setengah jam dia orang balik semula. Sang suami sampai dahulu. Dia duduk di ruang menunggu.
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Muka kelat.
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Tak lama lepas tu Si isteri muncul. Disambut oleh suami dengan leteran dan muka bengis.
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Si isteri buat tak tahu jer. Buat tak dengar. Dia terus ke bilik Milton. Tengok isteri dia masuk ke bilik Milton Sang suami bangun dan ikut dari belakang.
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Masa dia orang masuk dan duduk saja, Milton tanya kepada si isteri. Apa yang kamu dapati dan rasai sepanjang berjalan di taman?
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Si isteri senyum. Dia tarik
Nafas. Seolah olaj nafas lega. Dia gambarkan betapa damainya jiwanya bila dengar bunyi burung.
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Warna warni bunga asyikkan dia. Bau dari bunga pula sedap. Macam terasa di lidah.
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Hembusan bayu lembut yang menyapa ke wajah membahagiakan. “Pendek kata saya sangat teruja” kata sang isteri.
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Milton beralih kepada sang suami. Soalan yang sama dia tanya pada sang suami.
Sang suami menunjukkan rasa tidak puas. Dia tanya kenapa kena pergi taman. Dia datang untuk mendapatkan nasihat untuk “menyelamatkan”
rumahtangganya.
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Sang suami terus komplen. Panas berjalan di taman. Berpeluh-peluh. Membosankan. Tak ada apa yang nak di tengok.
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Pendek kata episod berjalan di taman menjengkelkan. Sehingga pejabat Milton dikutuknya. Sistem di pejabat Milton pun menjadi mangsa.
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Milton beralih kepada si isteri. Ceraikan dia. Beliau meminta pasangan itu meninggalkan biliknya.
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Si isteri menceraikan sang suami. Sistem luar negara. Isteri boleh ceraikan suami.
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Tidak lama selepas itu si isteri berjumpa dengan orang lain. Jatuh cinta dan berkahwin lain. Hidup bahagia.
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Sang suami tidak kahwin kahwin. Hidup menderita seorang diri. Pernah berdating dua tiga kali. Semua tak jadi. Ada saja yang tak kena dengan pasangan baru dia.
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Akhirnya dia meninggal dalam sengsara.
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Apabila sang isteri melaporkan keseronokan berjalan di taman dan sang suami tidak, ada bahagian-bahagian otak yang terlibat.
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Bagi sang suami, Prefrontal Cortexnya (PFC) bermasalah. PFC adalah CEO otak. Kita merancang, membuat keputusan, memori sementara berada di sini.
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Anterior Cingulate Gyrusnya (ACG) juga bermasalah. ACG adalah seperti gear kepada otak. Seperti gear kereta, ianya bertukar mengikut kelajuan. ACG bermasalah bila gear ini tidak bertukar.
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Asyik fikir benda yang sama. Berulang ulang. Tak boleh move on.
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Bagi sang suami, semua perkara adalah negatif. FIkirannya tersangkut di situ. Gear otaknya tidak dapat ditukar.
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Sistem Limbik atau pusat emosinya juga bermasalah. Emosi yang keluar menjengkelkan. Ada sahaja yang tidak kena. Beroperasi dengan mata lalat. Sentiasa mencari yang busuk. Menghidu yang busuk.
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Andai perkara yang menimpa sang suami sama dengan kita, belajarlah untuk merubah otak. Otak yang cantik, baik dan sihat menjamin rumah tangga bahagia. Otak cantik membahagiakan orang yang tersayang.
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Cuba semak otak kita bagaimana?
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The faces of these two couples are sour. Heartache. He came to see Dr Erikson Milton. A psychiatrist and a pioneer to hypnosis science.
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Purpose comes to get advice from expertise. The household is affected by storm. World war 3 keeps happening.
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Both of them were beautiful. Even the road is holding hands. Now it’s different. Something is wrong. No more friendly chats. The one with screams and cursing.
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The wife doesn’t understand the husband anymore. Husband is also the same. Both foreign tiger in their own house.
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In the past the pledge wanted to be alive. That was first. Time is all beautiful.
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Even though we keep on fighting, the wife quietly put our intentions. Want to save a household. For the sake of children.
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He thinks there must be a way out. He tried to persuade his husband. Invite husband to see Dr Milton.
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Convincing the convince, finally the husband agreed. It’s a promised day until they come to Milton office. Both went in and sat down.
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Milton said ′′ Both of you are out walking alone in the park across the street. Headache and back to this office. See me after that.”
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The husband looks at his wife. Her face looks like
blur for a while. With the weight of the husband also came out as directed.
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The husband starts from the south. The wife walked into the park from the north.
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After half an hour he will come back again. Husband arrived first. She sits in the waiting room.
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Kelat face.
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Not long after that the wife appeared. Greeted by a husband with expense and a fierce face.
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The wife doesn’t know. Don’t listen. She went straight to Milton room. Look at his wife going into the Milton room the husband woke up and followed behind.
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When he was just sitting down, Milton asked the wife. What do you find and feel along the walk in the park?
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The wife is smiling. He pulls up
Breath. As if the breath of relief. He described how much his soul is when he heard the bird sound.
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Colorful flowers keep it up. The smell of flowers is delicious. Feels like it’s in the tongue.
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Blowing the soft breeze that greets the happy face. ′′ Short says I’m so excited ′′ says the wife.
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Milton turns to the husband. The same question he asked the husband.
Husband shows dissatisfaction. He asked why he had to go to the park. He came to get advice to ′′ save ′′
His household.
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The husband keeps complaining. Hot walk in the park. Sweating. Boring. There’s nothing to see.
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Short said episode walk in annoying park. Until Milton’s office condemned. The system in Milton office is also the victim.
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Milton moves to the wife. Divorce him. He asked the couple to leave his room.
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The wife divorced the husband. Overseas system. Wife can divorce her husband.
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Not long after that the wife meets someone else. Fall in love and marry another. Happy life.
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Husband doesn’t marry marriage. Life suffers alone. Been two three times on a date. Everything doesn’t happen. Something’s wrong with his new partner.
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He finally died in miserable.
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When the wife reports the fun walk in the park and the husband doesn’t, there are parts of the brain involved.
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For the husband, the Prefrontal Cortex (PFC) is problematic. PFC is the CEO of the brain. We design, make decisions, memories while being here.
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Anterior Cingulate Gyrusnya (ACG) is also problematic. ACG is like a gear to the brain. Like a car gear, it changes to speed. ACG has problematic when this gear doesn’t change.
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Keep thinking the same thing. Over and over again. Can’t move on
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For the husband, all things are negative. The thought is stuck there. Her brain gear can’t be changed.
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Limbic system or emotional center is also problematic. Emotions that come out are annoying. Something is wrong. Operating with a fly eye. Always looking for the bad. Smelling the foul.
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If the things that happen to the husband are the same as us, learn to change the brain. A beautiful, good and healthy brain guarantee a happy household. Beautiful brain makes your loved ones happy.
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Try to check our brains how?
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